Wednesday, July 26, 2017

Empowering Love -FANDPLOVE IS BACK AGAIN!!!

At our core, we are all beautiful beings of love. We have the capacity for self-awareness unlike any other corporeal life on our planet, and through our gift of imagination, we can individually and collectively inspire new realities. When we are cognizant of our connection to life, our choices consider and reflect this innate union with every facet of life, and we imbue our creations with our essence of love, naturally benefiting the whole. Lamentably, along our journey of countless generations and for a myriad of reasons, we have steadily forgotten our intrinsic love. The more we felt disconnected from our grand and loving selves, the greater a perception of doubt pervaded our individual and collective psyche, eventually allowing the notion of fear to overtake our senses. The inaccurate bias of fear has been the dominating motivation for our view on life for far too long, and with this mistaken sense of separation from the love we are, it has influenced our choices in less than beneficial ways. Just as the sun shines its everlasting light regardless of the momentary clouds or the darkness of night, our universal love is always present and a part of us no matter what our current limited perspective may be. We are reawakening to this potent and enlivening energy and it is infusing and permeating our veiled consciousness, inspiring us to restore and empower reality from our heart. We are rapidly remembering our connection to everything and everyone and clearly seeing the results of choices made without consideration to the whole. love-is-a-unifying-principle-that-encourages-and-inspires-haroldwbecker Love is a unifying principle that encourages and inspires. It is compassion and kindness in action. It forgives and releases what was and allows the pure potential of what can be. Love is the cosmic connection to life itself. As we embolden ourselves with this animating power, we fully reestablish its presence in our awareness and begin a new adventure with love as our guide and constant companion. Empowering life with love is our true adventure. Fear as a motivator is no longer viable, necessary, or useful. There is no reason to be afraid when we know love is always present and infinitely more powerful as a choice and a way of being. It begins within by realizing and embracing our magnificence and acknowledging the marvelous wonder of life. From the tiniest subatomic particle to the stars that shine light-years away, we are a part of it all. With love in our heart, we are the magic and the miracle right where we are, and as we share our love, life itself expands in ever-greater expressions of love. Love and hugs, WRITTEN BY: Harold W. Becker COPIED BY: www.fandplove.blogspot.com

Wednesday, May 12, 2010

A LOVE LETTER FOR A BETTER RELATIONSHIP...LEARN FROM IT!





A LOVE LETTER THAT YOU MUST READ! MAKE YOUR COMMENT AFTER READING!

MY LOVE LETTER TO TARA...HAPPY ANNIVERSARY!
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Today marks Tara and I's 9th year wedding anniversary as well as my 39th birthday.

Every year, I share a letter that I wrote to her several years ago, which subsequently got published in a magazine. This has become a bit of a tradition between Tara and myself.

It reminds me of where we're coming from; our one bedroom room where we shared a toilet and bathroom with 6 families, to where God has brought us, to a really nice home in Victoria Garden City and an awesome present with an unprecedented future.

Don't give up on your dreams.

I hope it inspires you.

FD

NOW THE LOVE LETTER!


Tara my darling,

Let me quickly confess that the idea to write you a public love letter is Debbie’s (Ogunjobi – EveryWoman) idea but I think it’s a great one! The lady’s simply brilliant. The contents of the letter on the other hand, come straight from my heart and I hope it pleasantly surprises you as much as the thought excites me as I write.

As my pen meets the paper, my mind travels back a few years to July 1999, just before we started dating. We were walking down together along Ilabere Avenue, Ikoyi, just as the sun was setting and we were playing those mind games “what do you want in a marriage?”

I remember how startled you were when I told you that I was going to be a HIGHLY SUCCESSFUL HUSBAND OF A HIGHLY SUCCESSFUL WIFE. At that time, you mentioned how the world thinks this is impossible, either the husband succeeds and the wife does not or vice-versa.



I remember you told me how intimidated most men could be with highly successful wives. “But ………….”, you said with a smile.

Well my darling, time has proven me right …… Today, God has been fantastic and wonderful to us both and not only have we been blessed with great success in both our endeavors, I strongly believe that the greatest success we’ve seen so far is in the beauty of our marriage.

I mean every word when people ask me all over the world what my best decision has been and I reply “it’s following God’s instruction to ask you to marry me”.
You are the greatest of God’s blessings to me ………….., more than life itself.

I keep saying that no other woman could have been meant for me. How many women do you know that would marry a guy in a boy’s quarter that serves as a bedroom and office at the same time? Not many, if any would bet their life on a man who had not much more than a great vision of his future.

Tara darling, almost everyday you say that, I’m the best husband that any woman could have asked for but quite frankly, I think you make the best man that I can possibly be.

You’ve been my best friend since the first time we spoke while I was on that Phillips Consulting assignment to Bauchi. Four years (now 9) later and you are still my best friend and closest confidant today. It’s amazing!

We’ve defied the law of “love fades away’. With you, it’s LOVE GROWS. I don’t know how you make me but I find myself waking up each day loving you more. You know it’s true every time I tell you that I love you greatly but I also like you amazingly. Remember the text I sent to you on how much just speaking to you on the phone is like oxygen? Perhaps, that’s why we call each other every hour we are not together.

(Just for your information dear reader, I just took a 3-minute break to take Tara’s call. She just wanted to hear my voice and tell me she loves me. See what I’m saying?) How could I not be a fantastic husband to such an incredible wife? I really don’t have any other options do I?

My darling, this is just to let you and the whole world know that the last three years since we’ve been married have been the most wonderful of my life and it keeps getting better each passing year. It is true when the Bible says, “the path of the righteous shines brighter and brighter …………” I love how we rededicate our vows each year. You are the best birthday present God ever gave me.
(Dear reader, Tara and I got married on my 30th birthday)

And how can I thank you enough for those two wonderful boys (now 3) you’ve given me? I wonder what I’ll do when my daughter arrives. Get ready for unprecedented pampering.

I think with excitement of how we will grow old graciously together. Every time I think of you in your seventies, it puts a smile on my face. I’m sure you’ll be the funkiest 70-year old chic on the face of the planet. And you can be sure I’ll be the grooviest 76-year old bloke to ‘represent’.

Our children need to watch out for this ‘never grow old ‘ lovebirds they call their parents but the real trip for me is that we’re chosen to be role models for our future generations and I think we are well on our way to doing this.

You know I always say that a husbandman is a ‘Grooms’man, a gardener who tends his plant (his wife) into a beautiful vineyard. That is where a ‘Grooms’man differs from a ‘hunter’. The hunter takes a beautiful thing and kills it but the ‘Grooms’man takes a seed and tends it into an incredibly beautiful garden.

I am committed to working with God to bring out the best you that God has put in you. I am determined on seeing all of God’s dreams for you come to pass. Today, it’s House of Tara, in a short while, the WORLD OF TARA would soon become a reality, the multi-national empire that reveals the real beauty in every woman from the four corners of the world.

The WORLD OF TARA is truly a beautiful world where every woman has been "Tara-rized" into the beautiful queens and princesses that God made them to be. I won't reveal the strategy, but you can trust God it will be real.

It’s amazing how real you have remained despite all the hype. Stay real girl because the world hasn’t seen anything like what the Lord is about to do through your life. Mary Kay would rise to salute you on the day of rapture.

My darling, I remember that night in Jo’burg, South Africa back in October, 1999 standing alone in God’s presence and asking Him about you. He had asked me to read through Proverbs 31 woman and as I read through, your image was being captured from the pages of the scriptures.

I’m convinced God had you in mind when He inspired the writing of Proverbs 31’s wife of noble character.

I am so happy to praise you publicly and say, “many women do noble things, but you surpass them all”. Indeed, Tara is a woman who fears the Lord, therefore, dear reader; join me to give her the reward she’s earned.

I love you baby, for the rest of my life.

With all my love in my heart,

Your husband,

Fela.

This was written by Fela Durotoye on his Birthday and Wedding Anniversary...

It is not just about marriage; it is about understanding and conscious commitment both of them have put into it. In life you get what you put in life! I love this and I ask for the grace to have a good and better love life like yours. Enjoy!

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Friday, April 2, 2010

HE DIED FOR YOU!






I'm really humble for this day...He payed real price for us all. I just hope we don't waste it...He died for you and me...Thank you Jesus!
If you need Jesus in your life; pleas say this with consciousness. It will change your life. Say Lord Jesus, I come before you as a sinner, please forgive me of my short comings, I need a fresh beginning in my life, I know you died for me, wash and cleanse me with your blood. Thanks for dieing for me. Come in to my life Lord Jesus, Amen. After this please send us a mail to fandplove@gmail.com to tell us how you feel and we will help you further! Heaven is rejoicing for the choice you made today. Congratulations friend!

Monday, October 26, 2009

IN THE DAYS OF THE NEW NIGERIA





IN THE DAYS OF THE NEW NIGERIA

Dreams come true, come through and leave you in the world of your dream. That is why the best author who has the widest read book, said we are a product of our thought. What you are about to read is my story for the New Nigeria.
In the days of the New Nigeria there were preparation for election and surprisingly there was no ‘god father’ interference, no sidelining, kidnapping, bribery and election rigging. The people were in their right senses, influenced and were assured of their several choices. The media took interviews of some positive and patriotic Nigerians and they found that every one’s choice was based on a well thought choice. The Election Day approached and the people could not wait to cast their well thought vote. On the 8th of April was the election and everyone was out to cast their vote, and it want all well. Few days later the result came out and the choice president, Ass-President, Governor, senators, house of assembly and local government chairmen were chosen and their qualities were pure, truthful, and all motivated by the passion for work and not for embezzlement.
The New Nigeria surprised us all because our educational system became the world standard; Jamb illegality were eradicated so that hard working students who read and wrote well were given the opportunity to enter the university. The heartbeats of students were to read for knowledge and not to impress anyone but that they may be able to prove what they read anytime they are tested. Honestly the least score was c5 and then D7, C6, F9 was only a choice. At this time almost half of the class had A1 and B3. So the medium for reward was award by the government for one year scholarship each.
On the fifth year which was the shock of Nigerians, we all looked closely and were happy that for good five years there was no power failure and we Nigerians marked it with a celebration tagged ‘THE NEW NIGERIA, A REALITY’ and it had a strong saying ‘A step forward!’. Automatically our economic value increased so much that we no more owed World Bank. Our debts were paid, with ease. So there was no scare in ironing our clothes because the light was always stable. This automatically reminded me of a journey I had in Europe. My friends and I were had a scheduled meeting and all of a sudden we shouted ‘hey we have not ironed our shirts, NEPA will take light’ and then I laughed and reminded them that we were in Europe, not Nigeria. But we were glad that Nigeria had a stable light.
The availability of light gave rise to many developments in our country. It lead to no export because we now had our processing factories round the 37 states of Nigeria. This automatically made things cheap and affordable.
It, lead to self employment and more of entrepreneurs. This lead to high income yield in our financial sectors, as patriotic business owners solved challenges of the nation as much as they can, making a full support with the Nigeria Government and it made a more rapid growth in the nation. And then we saw ‘that with all for all, the desired all becomes a reality. Saying by Pjbass!
It is true that Nigeria was voted to be one of the most illegal sexed nation; a corrupt people and dirty in our dealings. Yes, it was said but right now it became a model for right relationship (marriage, dating, courting, gigolo, and end to abortions, unwanted pregnancies, gay (male and female same sex), commercial sex workers )harlots) and AIDS/HIV nation. I couldn’t express how happy I was; the constant reality of our youth’s positive sex lifestyle and non corrupt attitude further made me believe. Then there was no need for scare of insecurity, rape and sex camping. Because 95% had positive mindset and were all burned with the passion for change, the change we see now but never ending.
While abroad back then, I came to understand that even though Africa (Nigeria in view) is painted as a black negative nation and most corrupt, I found that we were abroad. But in the New Nigeria I was happy that the world publicized Nigeria, Africa as the best nation and continent to live in. They further said; the secrete to our success was that ‘we took a step at a time’. While they mocked us and said things about us, we kept moving and now they are behind us, far away. Now we were known as 1st World citizens and whatever name for themselves.
Looking intently, I remembered when an African president (B.O), Ex- president (B.C), and the president’s wife talked to us on international cables, for getting that Africa had change agents in the white countries making their economy what it was, but unknowingly we had change agents here who had a better picture for Nigeria and so it made the words of this white ungrateful folks futile. Until the whites remember that without the blacks (Africa, Nigeria most impactful) they wouldn’t have been that successful. But in my mind continued by my dream for The New Nigeria, I knew someday Africans and Nigerians would come back to their mother land, because their mother land was better than abroad. They came and gave what they gave the whites in their own land and then the secrete was revealed that before you talk against or talk about someone, first of all apply the principle of Pjbass Talk Pattern, it states; Recognize the positive things before the negative, weigh it and dwell on the best. Well it is my happiness to announce that what makes the world what it is has left the offshore and flown back into Nigeria and now we have the best models in all of lies diversity. Oh how happy I am, even though I have narrated the story, which is my dream for Nigeria in Africa.
In this New Nigeria; Naira had more value more than it was back then when $2 equals N1, but in This New Nigeria N1.00 is valuable than the dollar and pounds. Because our N1.00 to dollar and pounds became $300, 500 pounds. It was mind blowing, but we Nigerians and Africans transacted with this Naira value, no joke.
Nigeria became a farming nation, we had everything the best standard of agriculture. It gave rise to our economical value. What a New Nigeria.
Fuel, oil and gas became so cheap to N5.00 per litre. What a new Nigeria we now live in. Where security, good roads, nice infrastructures, crimeless government, open minded indigenes, harmless Police and the military lived and did their job very well. There was not more extortion of money and waste of lives but they secured and protected lives of the indigenes of Nigeria and Africa as a whole.
Universities and all 3rd level education became very cheap, because the economy of the universities was no more needed to affect the economy of Nigeria but to take care of the universities, modernizing it and payment of the staffs so that teaching became the highest well paid job in all levels of educations. This became a reality because the teachers where the farmers of the leaders of tomorrow.
In the days of the New Nigeria, more than this happened. I am glad it is story of change that stood as the world’s legacy.
OUR REQUIREMENT
Give the positive attitude you can to Nigeria and let all Africans give their best
Our concentration is on Nigeria, so positive behaviours, confessions and healthy mindsets should be kept
Remember we are a product of what we’ve been saying, so if you need change; say what you want
I have one evil world for all that won’t admit to this dream of the New Nigeria, you will grow worse never finding peace and you will never be known for something tangible. Evil will be your path and darkness your world.
But if you are interested in Then New Nigeria, then say this together...
Nigeria, the positive model of the world, Africa the best continent of the world, The New Nigeria, a land with peace, abundance and fulfilment!

Nigeria A Step Forward... By Peter Ibeji (Pjbass, Serving Director www.fandplove.blogspot.com, www.fandplove.blogspot.com, Creative writer, Strategist, Solutions Catalyst, Idea seller and world Change Model!-08072996739, 08067379916)

Thursday, October 1, 2009






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Tuesday, August 18, 2009

INSPITE YOUR HEIGHT, BE YOUR SELF...

Let us learn from this friend.

Jenny Sanford is a woman of honor to be modeled. I do not know her past life, neither do I know what she is in full, but I know that she is a woman that understands what love is all about. Inspite her husband infidelity, she still believes Gov Mark is the best thing that ever happened to her as she is still ready to keep the relationship going. She has done what most women can't do, but I am very sure she will reap this good thing she has done to Governor Mark Sanford of South Carolina. I pray every one learns from this.

Gov Mark also made me happy as he believes that it is well, just a matter of time. I believe this is real and will definitely come to be. He was not made that way by his creator and so anything that is not a representative of his creator is off his body. Congratulations sir and ma. Blissfulness shall be yours continually. Do have blessed days.

Peter Ibeji
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Friday, July 31, 2009

HIV/AIDS/SEX CHALLENGES FROM HEALTH ICONS







HIV/AIDS/SEX CHALLENGES FROM HEALTH ICONS

I start to say shame to you so called health leaders. Your destinies have only lasted for reasons known to me. Show me a leader and I will show you his products, show me a positive leader and I will show you his positive fruits. It beats my imagination but pleases my curiosity when I see mega organizations that have the power, network and influence in changing evil, but see them behave like children who need help, indirectly leading the mass public into negative behaviors and bad results to show for; a matter of time

The surprising thing is that this so called organizations are woe sayers, foreseers of the future of this innocent and stupid ones that will be the sole receivers of the negative feedbacks, they begin to cry why me, but never know that the people they look up to are evil but wolfs in sheep clothing.

I have counseled lots of people and most of them all innocent about what they do; they only took the lectures from what they were thought. We have got lots of abortions going on every day and it doesn’t reflect the fact that the leaders of these organizations to the nation as a whole will never experience peace when there is physical and spiritual murder everyday in the country, because they have thought people to use sex with condom, because while it goes on the people can’t control themselves but remove the condom and use it life, because we have forgotten to tell them that condom is just 15% secured and not hundred percent secured.

We expect the nation to be what it is and we do not know that a guy or girl who has chosen to avoid sex till they marry will not do so when they have been given condom, for some they say since it won’t make her pregnant, I have to rape her because she is stubborn, and she cries and they tell her you can cry I have had my way for you won’t be pregnant and we are not there to feel the trauma, the pain and the limitation it places on the victim towards their future relationship.

I have much to say, but with time I will. Right before me is a publication titled HIV/AIDS & SEX PRACTICAL ADVICE that teaches about HIV and the enhancer of sex for that same HIV they are stupidly trying to cure. In it is a subtopic titled: HOW CAN I CONVINCE MY PARTNER TO USE CONDOM, not their wife but partner. Another subtopic is OTHER THINGS YOU CAN TRY which teaches on how to stay in the mood playing with each other, advices that states the woman can help the m an put on the condom, and the truth but not from their heart that says a difficult partner should say “no condom no sex”. Is this the way to call a spade a spade, forgetting that with persistency they will agree just a matter of time!

Then another subtopics that states ANSWERS TO COMMON COMPLAINTS where they advice to make sex fun, telling them to follow condom rules, that trust is not enough because we both have a sexual past (which is a wrong statement for a love foundation) I will treat this later. Wicked idiots and organizations leading the people astray, you don’t even know what you are doing.

What made it worse in this publication is that they gave a sub topic titled IMPORTANT CONDOM RULES: it reads;
 Open the pack carefully, don’t use nails or teeth
 Never use petroleum jelly or oils on the condom
 Use only water, saliva or a special made lubricant like lubrica
 Wait until the penis is fully erect before putting of the condom. Hold the tip to push put the air.
 Roll the condom all the way down.
Another of their advice reads, don’t be shy, condoms can save your life, always have your own pack, instructions on proper use are in each pack. Another reads use a condom (if you must have sex while you have symptoms or are being treated for STI diseases. Meaning that even while you are treated on a disease you should still continue to have sex with condom at pain, is this not plain madness of this so called leaders?

When an innocent person or those in practice do this don’t you think that the negative sex lifestyles will increase the harlots? Sex cheaters, fake relationships for sex and the rest of them? Abortion becomes a norm and unwanted pregnancies, the lives of this ones ruined, HIV/AIDS contacted the more. Their education and their future being dashed with stains that can unbalance their mega dreams. Or why waste the precious destinies of these ones?

THE REASON FOR THE ECONOMIC CHALLENGES
USA is where it is because they spend their money on health problems. Nigeria would have become better if the funds for curing these conscious negative diseases are diverted to farming. USA is meant to be the leaders for all whites and Nigerians and this two play the wrong roles. Before I was born Societal for Family Health has existed, so you have 26 years of evil influence and Unites States Agency Intervention Development. A shame with all your development you developed diseases all this years, including the Society for Family Health. That is why your economy is this way. USA your nation can never get better if you don’t teach people to live a sex right life, if you say no watch, because your economy and country will fall more and more because all your money goes in to fighting sex and USAID is 38 years old but have not used this years positively. That is why the teenagers feel easy to sex at 13 get married at 16 live their parents and live a miserable life, because or lack of proper training. Nigeria the same goes to you.
I am tempted to mention the trustees and leaders of these organizations. But I won’t till the next time I write, if they do not put a stop to illegal sex vices then I will descend mightily the next time I write.


QUESTIONS TO USAID AND SFH/PARTNERS
 Why have you established an organization because you want to destroy the people?
 Why have you created all sex substitution for money sake and not for the truth?
 Why have you gone around sharing condom to innocent and evil people who because of it have sex?
 Why have you made it legal to haves sex before marriage
 Have you the CEO, board of trustees, partners lost your senses?
 Why have you been the reason for rape?
 Why have you been the reason for commercial sex hype (harlots)?
 Why have you chosen to increase lesbians and gays lifestyles?
 Why have you chosen to give the peoples diseases they can’t cure?
 Why have you refused to call the truth, truth?
 Why have you ruined the life of the future leaders, CEO’s of mega companies, CBN governors and great entrepreneurs?
 Why have you sown subliminal believe in using substitutions for an answer?
 Why not be real and teach the people the truth, than wasting our money on printing manuals for illegal sex?

Guess what you all will be ruined if you don’t do the right thing! You all have got the chance to make a change, do so or else, your end will be brutal, in your family, generations and life fulfillment. You will all live miserable as the repercussion of the aborted and diseased ones will fall on you, your organizations and your partners. I remain Peter Ibeji (Serving Director of RELATIONSHIP SOLUTIONS)

Wednesday, April 8, 2009

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Saturday, February 21, 2009

NO MORE RELATIONSHIP CHALLENGES!

NO MORE RELATIONSHIP CHALLENGES! JUST VISIT www.fandplove.blogspot.com or send relationship challenges to fandplove@gmail.com, CONGRATULATIONS LOVERS!

It is a new year, a new phase, new approach, new priority and constant commitment to what ever you set your hands to do. I am concerned about happiness and maturity in relationships. So for this year feel free to send in your mails and blog to RELATIONSHIP SOLUTIONS and you will be glad you did. Have a prosperous 2009. I love you!

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Tuesday, December 23, 2008
















RELATIONSHIP SOLUTIONS, COURTSEY PJBASS LIFE TRANSFORMATION WISHES YOU A HAPPY SEASON OF CHRISTMAS AND NEW 2009. ACT, EAT AND LIVE RESPONSIBLE LIFE!

HOMOSEXUALS, LESBIANS AND SEX TRUTH





HOMOSEXUALS, LESBIANS AND SEX TRUTH

How long will we keep deceiving ourselves from the truth we know?
The big truth is that we are all accountable for whatever values, principles and happenings of our lives. We have got our mind that helps us to discern which is right or wrong.
So why not take responsibility of every single thoughts and events that takes place in your mind? If God created Adam and Eve and not Adam and Henry, Eve and Jessica then why do we keep listening to the misleading happenings that we see in our relationships today? If the world was to be men to men and women to women who would have made up this world. How long will we try to make an artificial of the original? How long will we try to sustain the wrong thing we know about? Will we be wrongly sex active with same sex like we? I am sure someday we all will be judged by the truth we know. The enjoyment of today is not most time the lasting enjoyment of the future. The right principles, values and right choice give us a lasting enjoyment.

Sex before marriage is not good. Sorry if you have been a victim of this but you can bear witness that he no more respects you, loves you, and admire you like before. For some they have been dumped, used to a level of no value, heartbroken, made to become a mother before your time, had abortions (spiritual murderers), turn into harlot, a future destroyed by illegal and untimely sex activity. Listed up there is just a little of the physical damages illegal sex has caused you! I deeply weep for you because you cannot turn the hands of time again, what have been damaged is now a life style for you. Your shyness has become very obvious; you now have to repair your respect, integrity and dignity, just because you refused to listen to your personal guide. What a mystery...
Had I know now the title of your album! Once bitten twice shy.

The companions of fools (gays, homo's, lesbians, and untimely sex partakers) shall be destroyed. It's a matter of time friend. That truth you know and refuse to live by will stand against you, make you unable to fulfil your destiny, make you not to be fulfilled, remove pure happiness from your life, and make you regret never to be born. What else...Hiv/Aids being your mind guide, since you refused to listen to the mind guide that told you the right and the wrongs, STD's that helps you on the right track and more diseases that will pop up just because human beings won't want to the right thing. What will you gain friend? After all we know that vanity upon vanity is vanity!
The only happiness comes when you are able to live the right life style, affect lives positively, live a fulfilled life and make HEAVEN where you will be rewarded greatly! We are sent to this earth as Ambassadors of Change and not fans of evil! I need not write much as our heart personal guide will help us do the rest.

ONE ADVICE, ONE TRUTH, AND ONE ENTERNITY:
GIVE YOUR LIFE TO JESUS CHRIST. He died for you years ago, still willing to make your life meaningful if you will give him the chance to do so. He does not want you to burn in the lake of fire for eternity. He wants you to rule and be happy in HEAVEN if you will make that choice today. The question here is are you yet not ready to make this commitment to giving your life to JESUS CHRIST WHO DIED FOR YOU? A STORY TO HELP YOU UNDERSTAND THE NEED OF GIVING YOUR LIFE TO JESUS CHRIST. There was a man who was a friend to my Pastor. He and my Pastor were drug addicts, gangsters and devil advocate.
Later on my now Pastor gave his life to Jesus Christ and stopped all the evil he was doing. Went to preach the news of eternal life to his friend. Unfortunately his friend refused
and told him he still had enough time to enjoy his so called life and told him later on he will give his life to JESUS CHRIST. Three days later my Pastor went to visit his friend, only to find out that his friends elder brother was crying and he asked what the problem was...Your guess is as good as mine.

His friend was dead. How! But he had enough time to enjoy his life, if only you know that the enemy will tamper and take the life of someone who doesn't know Jesus Christ.
Those that know him have a sense of responsibility to be world changers. His friend's death was a tragedy. He went to a party, was drunk and while going home laid down on the rail way line and then the train passed and crushed him, converting him into identifiable pieces and when my Pastor heard it he felt bad because his friend died a mysterious death, certainly burning in fire. Except you know that you can put your hands in to the fire for 2min please keep the evil lifestyle you have now. If you are tired of the kind of lifestyle and you are sure you need JESUS CHRIST then welcome to the gathering of peace.

Say this and do the following:
Lord Jesus I come before you now
I am a sinner
I have worn out my life all this while
I believe that only you can make me who I am meant to be
Forgive my sins
Give me a brand new life
Make my life have meaning and let it be of value from this day
As I make a promise to follow you till you come
Thanks for being merciful to wash my sins with your blood
Thanks for accepting me as your son and daughter, NOW I AM FREE!

Go to a positive living church. I know that God will direct you to the right church. You can contact me on +2348067379916, +2348072996739 or petertony1610@yahoo.com (mail or chat). Or P.O.Box 822, Agege, Lagos, Nigeria. I can't wait to hear from you dear friend. You remain the BEST. I Love YOU!

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Pjbass commentary towards THE SUPPORT FOR GAY AND LESSBIANS: 'After God created man he created woman'

Its not what we feel like that makes up the values of life. But taking reality to be reality. The truth being undilluted but made plain. I want to have you know that your views makes up the nation and witht the influence you have; you can affect another life. So why not remove centiments and make the truth what it is. We will all be judged for the wrong information we give to mankind. The grace you have today is of God. Use it well and God will lift you up more and more. Gay and Lesbians are governed by illegal friends, wrong timing, wrong place and wrong values. Its not right or else you wouldn't have been to this world. After God created man he created woman. Why not a second male. May you that know the truth and refuse to live the truth be destroyed by the mighty hands of God. By the Serving Director of PJBASS LIFE TRANSFORMATION, as you can type FANDPLOVE in google and you will be with relationship solutions, my support towards relationship. Do, live and be the right thing. Thanks friend.


Pjbass commentary towards THE RESEARCCH TO MAKE A FEMALE PRODUCE STERM: 'Lesbianism is leaving your Heavenly grace to reproduce when you get married'

Stress is the sign that what we are doing is wrong or not the right way. You can make the researches but you know deep down that those research is against the right principles so why create it? Lesbianissm is leaving your Heavenly grace to reproduce when you get married. Stop decieving your self. Get married with the right man. For how long can you be a lessbian? My heart aches seeing this article and thats why I am commenting on it. My mum has done a lot for me. Some day your children will say this of you. Stop injuring and decieving your self. Do the right thing. Type FANDPLOVE in google and you will be there with relationship solutions. Love you and want the best for you. My contact is on fandplove. Take care and have a blessed season of celebration.


Pjbass commentary towards DO YOU THINK TEENS SHOULD BE TAUGHT TO ABSTAIN FROM SEX UNTIL AFTER MARRIAGE?

Adam an d Eve were not teens when they were created. Why will you venture into a lifetime enjoyment from now? Why illegal sex with the person you won't get married to? even if you will, it reduces the respect he has for you. So why act based on the naturality of your body. The fact you feel like having it means that your body is functioning well. Why use it as an opportunity to have sex. So every time you feel your body sex naturality, you immediately go have sex? Nonsense friend. until you value your furture marriage you will keep being an inhouse harlot. For your information the harlot is better than you. Do the right thing. zzow great your future is depends on what you will do with it from now on.Do the right thing and you will be glad you did. Sex is for the married and not the spoilt brats with non valuable reserves for their future husbands, Stay with your husbands and you will be glad you did.

COMING UP SOON: GAYS/LESSBIAN/SEX SHOUT! by the Serving Director of PJBASS LIFE TRANSFORMATION!

Monday, December 22, 2008

YOUR NATIONAL COMMITMENT


PAINFUL ASPECET OF THE CURRENT AGE RELATIONSHIP LIFE STYLE

The basic problem of the nation is the upcoming children who out rightly misbehave; trying to behave they are matured and know the best than their elders. This altitude has played lot of negative roles in the making of the nation. Because where there is no respect, there is no peace and definitely judgement standing for such behaviours. Making it worse as the elders are not able to correct their children. So double repercussion as a result of the shouts the parents uses towards them, the ‘had I know’ syndrome that comes as a result of the children neglect. A repercussion they wished never came their way, wishing they could turn the hands of time.

Until we begin to address issues instantly, then pricing and habitual living in this negative life style is not an option but a norm in the teens and youths life.

Why should a nine year old child be a victim of rape?

Why should an elderly man try to rape young teens?

Why should young teens be seen as the harlots’ leaders?

Why should they stop schooling due to sex?

Why should governors, presidents, commissioners and leaders to mention but a few arrange teens for sex and abortion after negative exercise?

Living this people in a general life mess?

As though they do not have children?

The evil of the nation is not because no one does not know the truth, but because everyone has been trained to satisfy his or her feeling with the constant saying ‘nothing they happen’ BIG PITY READER!

The nation's success is the joint work of every single person in that nation. The problem is not the president but you friend. You are a born leader so live the right kind of life. For some day you will rule as you are already rulling in different sphers already. Help avert the cause of a nation for the positive good that will reach every one.


You are the best...Pjbass.

GOD'S VESSELS SECREET

Nothing can hold anyone down who has in him the yeast to rise! For when it is all over, you'll still bestanding!

Every grteat achiever has a passionate memory of a time in their life when they were given multiple reasons to believe that they were failures. But at last, they proved the critics wrong.

Do you feel overwhelmed by your challenges?
Do you feel like giving up pursuit of your dreams?
do you feel like there's no point trying anymore?

Lawrence Onochie knows that you can make it against all odds as long as you still have breath in your nostrils. Until you strech yourself, you'll never know what you are capable of achieving with your life.

The odds have not been found that can stop a man who will stake his life on his dreams.

Coiled out from AGAINST ALL ODDS, written by Lawrence Onochie. The King's Heritage (+23485007390, +23414360757).
I am happy having your inspiration on this site. SOAR HIGH!

HABIT AND CHARACTER


Human beings are creatures of habit. We get into a routine that we are comfortable with and we stick to it unless something big comes along and shocks us out of it. Our daily habits often force us to put up with all kind of degrading and destructive events, all in the name of keeping things comfortable or familiar.
We would rather put up with the habits we know because we can put up with them, rather than create new habits that we have never experienced before.The excuses for clinging to our habits range from almost acceptable to completely neurotic. For example, staying in a job that you don't like so that you can continue to pay the mortgage and feed your family is almost an acceptable excuse for staying at your job. It would be just foolish to suddenly quit and start thinking about how to pay your bills.But it is wrong to think that this job that you dislike has to be it for the rest of your life. Sure it's comfortable, you know you can do it, but don't you owe to yourself, your family, and your employer to get out and do a job that is right for you? Nothing will change if you don't change. The first step is recognizing that change is necessary.

Secondly you have to figure out where you would be more fulfilled in your career. Maybe you have to do something more creative, something outdoors in nature, something that allows you to be in different places, or maybe you have to be the one making all the decisions with your own business. When you are clear about what it is that you really want from your career, you have to start taking steps towards it.A new job is not going to come running to you just because you're unhappy with your old one. If it's a new industry you may have a lot to learn before even thinking about applying for new positions. You may have to take classes at night while you put up with your dull job during the day.If it's your own business that you dream of, you may have to start from your home. Working during the night and weekends to move closer to doing it fulltime and leaving your old job. Just because we are familiar with something is no reason to continue doing it. It's easy to get caught up in day to day living - especially if you have a family to take care of - and to put off any changes that could improve your life.
Change can invoke fear, insecurity, and feelings of loss in people. Make the change anyway!Life is not pausing for you while you are putting up with something that you dislike. Life is passing you by while you waste it doing the wrong thing. There's no rewind button, there's only now, and if you're not happy with your now, Change it!

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Love can never be a pretence.
It is plain and white as snow. So playing games in your relationship is creating a black spot that will stand as a testifier against you. What do we gain in fooling our selves? It is good to let you know that unknowingly you repeat cycles and only delay your right partner. Love is not a place for competittion. It is a world meant for two faithful lover. Can you say you are a faithful lover?
As good as it is to love God; So it is to Love your neigbhour as your self. So what you wouldn't like to happen to you, please don't do it to someone else. Love...2 be continued.

MOTIVATIONAL EXPO


As the new year draws closer and many people are going into holiday mode, some people are thinking about the year ahead. It can be a time for reviewing the year that was and thinking about the year that will be. Many people will be coming up with new year's resolution for 2009 even though they can't even remember what their new years resolution was for 2008! While many come up with a new year's resolution, they do so in a flippant, light hearted manner. We may commit to lose weight or save money, but before January is even finished we will be pigging out on chocolate and buying designer clothes or fast cars.If you're going to take the time to come up with a resolution for the new year ahead, why not make it a serious commitment? Treat it like a real goal that you plan to achieve.

POINT 1- Make sure you are Realistic about the Goal: The reason many goals are not achieved is because they are unrealistic. If you are currently earning 140,000 per year, with no savings, and you want to be a millionaire within the next 12 months, you may be setting yourself up to fail. Lottery should not be a part of your goal setting as you have very little control over winning money. Your goals should be ambitious enough to get you out your comfort zone, but realistic enough to be achievable.

POINT 2- Get Clear about your GoalWrite your goal down in detail with time frames and specific numbers or objectives. If you want to lose weight this year, your goal could be to lose a set number of kilos of pounds each month, with a total to be lost before the end of 2009. Or you may choose to increase sales by 50% for the year.

POINT 3- Set Mini GoalsRather than just focusing on one major goal like saving 20 percent of a home loan for a deposit, have mini goals that are regularly achieved. If you have set yourself 12 months to save 120,000 your goal could be to save 10000 each month. Which means your one goal of 120,000 should be divided into 12 mini goals of 10000.

POINT 4- Be Committed! Understand that if your goal or resolution is even slightly ambitious, it will take time, possibly money, dedication, persistence, and a lot of commitment.It may require further education, more work, risk, and a lot of sacrifice on your part.If you are serious about achieving your new year's COMMITMENT for 2009 it is worth taking the extra time necessary to get clear about what your resolution is and how it will be achieved.

Don't be flippant about the next 12 months and use it to achieve something worthwhile. Some of the most common new years resolutions will be to lose weight, save more money, get out of debt, improve education, find a better job, join the gym, quit smoking, and to spend more time with the family. A lot of these changes will take a lot of commitment and dedication to achieve.

THE SECREET TO PROGRESS IS YOU, THE SECREET TO GREATNESS IS CONSISTENCY AND THE YOU IS THE POSITIVE RESULT OR ATTINMENT OF YOUR PROGRESS MULIPLIED BY CONSISTENCY. HAVE A HAPPY 2009!

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